I was in therapy today explaining a common situation that I think many married couples have. I wanted my husband to listen to me vent about how burnt out I am, and he immediately fired back “well, you need to stop signing up for so many things.”
The Peacemaker’s Prison: Enneagram 9 Motherhood and Mental Load
I’ll be honest: when I signed up for an Enneagram class at church, my intentions weren’t exactly “spiritual growth.” I mainly did it for the guaranteed weekly 1-hour escape from the Third Shift—that invisible, relentless labor of managing everyone’s schedules, emotions, and misplaced socks. I expected a few personality charts and maybe a polite discussion. … Read more